It took me 10 long years to stop my monkey mind from jumping task-to-task, often leaving a lot unaccomplished and even more messy. Here are my three habits and mantras that changed chaos to calm and sharper focus.

Working independently since 2011, I’ve often been overwhelmed by the number of things that demand my attention. As a full-time employee, one has many advantages. There are teams, departments and multiple options. But for self-employed people, the options dwindle. Life becomes chaotic, as you wade through multiple dimensions of the work on your own.

Over the last few years, I’ve spent days learning new media, failing, falling, and trying to force digital routines that didn’t always stick. I was living moment-by-moment, rather than thinking long-term. To reclaim my focus and make my goals—both professional and personal—livelier and rejuvenating, I committed to changing my habits and style of working. It took time, but here are my three pillars of finding calm, clarity and productivity:

1. Habit #1: Using Checklists to Beat Overwhelm
2. Habit #2: Mapping Success with Vision Board
3. Habit #3: Rewiring the Brain Through Journaling
4. Progress Over Perfection
5. Continue Your Journey to Calm
6. Resources for Your Journey

Habit #1: Using Checklists to Beat Overwhelm

The Mantra: “Clear the head, capture the task.”

Given the chaos of trying to finish everything in one go, I decided to make a content calendar. All to no success. That was when I decided that I needed to shift my strategy and pivot to a step-by-step approach.

To prioritise my steps, I began to make checklists. My checklists started with simple things: daily, weekly, monthly tasks.

Eventually, work began to roll out smoothly. My daily chores became lighter, leaving me enough time for leisure and then all this became a habit to manage my time better. It was so like breathing, an automatic response.

Checklists clarified my steps. I developed the habit of making wiser choices, sticking to them, being consistent and disciplined, and not collapsing during challenging times.

The Monkey Mind loves to loop on “What’s next?” A checklist acts as an external hard drive, allowing your brain to stop remembering and start doing.

Habit #2: Mapping Success with Vision Board

The Mantra: “Look past the chaos toward the North Star.”

My journey with vision boards began in 2025 and to my surprise, I found it very powerful. Now, I make vision boards for all my goals. I reviewed my #Vision2025 and saw that I had ticked off all the boxes, except one. Mentally, thanking myself for the newfound discipline, I made #Vision2026. I’ve kept my goals small, things that I can focus on and accomplish within a few months or one year.

Achievable Goals to keep me charged:

Writing: Add more humour and expression to my work, letting go of emotional weight.

Health: Learn a new form of exercise and lose 5 kg.

Environment: Shift to a greener location and revive my Nature Journal.

Travel: Explore Nagaland, Tripura, Manipur, and Mizoram, and all the places that I am invited to.

Skills: Upgrade my videography and relaunch my podcasts. Learn a new language.

Organization: Catalogue my photography and create a light, achievable content calendar.

When you’re caught in the daily grind, the Monkey Mind focuses on the immediate “fire.” A vision board is your visual anchor, reminding you why you’re working so hard in the first place.

Habit #3: Rewiring the Brain Through Journaling

The Mantra: “Evict the noise to find the signal.”

I used to write a diary during my schooldays, but unfortunately had to let those go to scrap. The habit began again in 2012, when I learned Shamanism. I began to record my journeys. Those also saw a catastrophic end.

But last year, something changed. I began to pen daily. And at the end of the year, I realised that all that I had written made sense. It was my life unfolding before me, the way I perceived things, the things I really wanted and the path to achieve them.

Initially, I used a ball pen to write. But lately, I have transitioned to an ink pen. That has manifold benefits. For one, it’s better for your handwriting, slow and clean, more aesthetically appealing.

Also, pen-to-paper has neuro advantages. Neuroscience proves that penning your thoughts, from brain to hand, helps in rewiring your brain.

Writing is not just “storing data”; it is Neuro-Architectural. Current research into the Encoding Hypothesis suggests that the brain processes information with deeper complexity when written by hand. By slowing my handwriting to accommodate the ink’s flow, I am literally rewiring my Default Mode Network (DMN)—taming the “Monkey Mind” by giving it a physical rhythm to follow.

If the Monkey Mind is a tangled ball of yarn, journaling is the act of straightening the threads. It’s not just writing; it’s a mental detox that turns vague anxiety into actionable insight.

Progress Over Perfection

Nothing is achieved overnight. But with the right productivity habits, you can turn a chaotic mind into a disciplined one. By prioritizing my day with a checklist and visualizing my future, I’ve finally moved into a routine that brings the results I used to only dream of.

Along the way of changing habits, remember to be kind to yourself. Replace panic with discipline. And at the end of the day, pat yourself on the back, knowing that you are making a change that comes with practice.

And do let me know what is one habit you’re starting now?

Continue Your Journey to Calm

If you enjoyed these tips for mental clarity, explore these related reflections:

• The 10-Minute Shift: A 7-Day 2026 Wellness Reset
• Oracle Card Journaling: Discover Clarity and Guidance
• Free Guide: 7-Day Shadow Writing Challenge
• My Hilarious Misadventures in Blogosphere

Resources for Your Journey

If you found this helpful, here are a few ways we can stay connected and keep the momentum going:

• Listen to the Podcast: My podcast is getting a reboot! Subscribe on Spotify to hear more deep dives into nature lore and personal growth.
• Visual Inspiration: Follow me on Instagram and YouTube for glimpses of my Nature Photography and Travel posts.
• Stay Updated: Don’t miss a beat (or a bird call). Check out my latest wildlife tales and travel updates and they will reach your mailbox soon!

This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Sameeksha Reads.